Women – don’t get larger, don’t get older, don’t have fun, don’t dare to wear a bikini

Every summer, like clockwork, the media lights up with images of women on holiday, with every detail scrutinized under the sun. Are they in bikinis? Are they too old, too big, or too comfortable in their skin? Cue the uninvited commentary: “Why is she wearing a bikini at that age?” or “Shouldn’t she be in a one-piece?” Unfortunately, this ritual has become a hallmark of the season. From paparazzi shots to scathing headlines, this relentless shaming perpetuates an unrealistic standard. But why is this the norm, and what does it say about society’s relationship with women’s bodies?

The Annual Spectacle of Body Shaming

Let’s call it what it is: a spectacle. During the summer months, certain media outlets seem to relish the chance to parade images of female celebrities in swimsuits. These aren’t just photos; they’re ammunition. Paparazzi snap these women in vulnerable moments—adjusting a towel, stretching, or bending over—and they’re often captured from unflattering angles to amplify imperfections. If the perfect shot isn’t there, the right lens and a bit of editing can make it look like it is.

But why? Why do these images gain so much traction, and why is there such a public appetite for seeing women, particularly those who dare to age or exist above a size eight, ridiculed for simply living their lives?